tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post7649300236079882032..comments2023-09-04T05:20:41.601-07:00Comments on Empty Nesters: ChristmasPamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09944758229393451793noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post-81070740571878128262007-10-17T06:45:00.000-07:002007-10-17T06:45:00.000-07:001 or 2 sounds good to me. It'll be fun to get one...1 or 2 sounds good to me. It'll be fun to get one person something nice and then move on. You decide and just let us know what to do. Love ya!Kaseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09494916214715823866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post-15875043722609203482007-10-16T14:37:00.000-07:002007-10-16T14:37:00.000-07:00Well I absolutely love Christmas and never feel bo...Well I absolutely love Christmas and never feel bogged down by gift buying or the commercialization of it all (maybe because I am not a parent?). I just love that it's when my family all comes together and we bake together and listen to music and and wrap presents and see the lights and play in the snow and play games. We all pick names so we only get a present for one sibling (and set a money limit). My parents usually just give us kids money not so much presents because that is what we all need anyway. I guess that is not very cozy sounding. Anyhow, this year we are doing a new thing and getting all family history related gifts- for example, framed photos of our ancestors, or of our parents wedding portrait, or writing up family memories to go along with family recipes and collecting those in a book, etc. I am really excited about it. I think everyone donating their gift money towards a charity or towards sub for santa family is also a neat thing, my husband's family used to do that.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02453044563763590116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post-48487681250546249272007-10-15T15:44:00.000-07:002007-10-15T15:44:00.000-07:00I completely agree Jami. I just like spending tim...I completely agree Jami. I just like spending time together and eating, of course. That is the best present.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09944758229393451793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post-15696888373463292222007-10-15T11:31:00.000-07:002007-10-15T11:31:00.000-07:00I agree! Ryan was calling me a grinch the other d...I agree! Ryan was calling me a grinch the other day because I don't even like Christmas anymore! It should be just for kids because everything else is just stupid and we end up shopping more than spending time together...can we just eat and be done with it???Jamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00184006974900684971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post-25672275595989970542007-10-13T10:21:00.000-07:002007-10-13T10:21:00.000-07:00i say we do number one or number two. You told me ...i say we do number one or number two. You told me this on the phone and i think it is a great idea. we have been talking about doing this for a few years and I think it's time to start! I think no matter what that we should all contribute to the child or whatever else we decide. I know you and dad will still contribute the most, but i think it's good for everyone to do something...I'm totally fine with the grandkids not trading names too. they have bdays for gifts from their cousins and you're right with simplifying shipping/buying so much.Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18230826570810114209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29273478.post-27494997715708373472007-10-12T15:44:00.000-07:002007-10-12T15:44:00.000-07:00Hi Pam-We draw names just between siblings. My par...Hi Pam-<BR/>We draw names just between siblings. My parents are in there too, which is dumb because we always end up trying to get them something even though the idea is not to. But once someone buys for them we all feel like we have to. Hopefully that will change soon. We only do a $25 limit. My parents still buy for everyone. (They're nuts!) The cousins trade gifts. Once there are more the cousins will draw names as well, but for now it doesn't make sense. The limit is $20. So really we draw names just for siblings and in-laws. There is always way too much. It is pretty much the same on Tyler's side too. After reading this I am not much help! Now I need to call my mom and see how we can tone it down!!Aubreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05610759653839704891noreply@blogger.com